March 9th, 2008

How To Identify The Characteristics Of Low Self Esteem

Low self-esteem can occur at any point in a person’s life. Some people who are especially susceptible to such feelings are usually teenagers who are influenced to a large extent by what other people think about them. Other categories of people can be affected by such issues as well such as new mothers who are entering a different phase of their lives that they weren’t really aware of or haven’t experienced before.

If you want to know whether people or anyone close to you is currently suffering from low self-esteem, you can look at any of these signs to determine is the signs are typical of the person in question:

February 13th, 2008

Is It Possible To Do Submission Grappling Without Getting Injured?

Is it possible to be a grappler and train injury free? By some reactions that I’ve received in the past, many tend to think that grappling “injury-free” is very possible. Some grapplers like to believe that most injuries could be avoided if training partners were more considerate and less competitive while training.

January 27th, 2008

How To Say No

One problem with wanting to be liked is you agree to requests from others without looking at your needs. Over the years I have met many people who would automatically say “yes”, thinking that it would help them make friends and be liked. Unfortunately, just saying “yes” means you get used and abused. Learning to say “no” is an important part of confident communication (or assertiveness). It is part of recognizing your rights and respecting your needs.

If saying no to someone makes them angry and stomp off - well what sort of friendship is that? They will go and find someone else to take advantage of. True friendship is based on recognizing each others needs, not just our own.

January 7th, 2008

Is It Possible To Do Submission Grappling Without Getting Injured?

Is it possible to be a grappler and train injury free? By some reactions that I’ve received in the past, many tend to think that grappling “injury-free” is very possible. Some grapplers like to believe that most injuries could be avoided if training partners were more considerate and less competitive while training.

January 6th, 2008

Increase Self Esteem - Diet And Exercise Tips

Self-esteem plays a role in everything we do. It helps us feel good about ourselves, and gives us the courage to try new things. A healthy dose of self esteem can give you the strength to do what you know is right, even when everyone else is saying something different. It can also help you handles the ups and downs of life with a positive outlook.

Sometime our self-esteem begins to waver when we surround ourselves with people who always look for the downside of life. Negativism can be very contagious, so take special care not to follow their lead in the way you look at yourself or life.

December 10th, 2007

Is It Possible To Do Submission Grappling Without Getting Injured?

Is it possible to be a grappler and train injury free? By some reactions that I’ve received in the past, many tend to think that grappling “injury-free” is very possible. Some grapplers like to believe that most injuries could be avoided if training partners were more considerate and less competitive while training.

December 3rd, 2007

Do You Really Want To Be A Black Belt - Or Just Faking It?

Let’s say that you’re a BJJ Instructor and you have two students that show up to join your school on the same day. You talk to both of these prospective students to find out their backgrounds and this is what you learned about both of them:

After talking with Grappler #1 (G1), you learn that this grappler
was:

- very confident, showing little or no self-doubt about wanting to achieve the BJJ BB

- very athletic and had been involved with martial arts since he was a child

- a black belt in a traditional martial art

November 26th, 2007

Is It Possible To Do Submission Grappling Without Getting Injured?

Is it possible to be a grappler and train injury free? By some reactions that I’ve received in the past, many tend to think that grappling “injury-free” is very possible. Some grapplers like to believe that most injuries could be avoided if training partners were more considerate and less competitive while training.


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